The pitfall of personal development.
As seekers we are always under the threat of falling into the greatest pitfall of them all in personal development.
Like any sport, personal development has its disciplines, and we all have to find the one that matches us.
It doesn't make any sense to try to follow a path that doesn't speak to the very core of our being. That would be living in self-denial, which would make the unfolding of our true self impossible.
It's much better to explore who we actually are, and use that as a stepping stone to find the most suited personal development discipline for us.