The change is in the journey.
If you want clarity of heart and mind, you have to open the secret door to exploring your personality, and why it matters.
One of the big misconceptions about personal development is that you can change instantly.
Although it's true that change is ignited that way, it comes with a process leading up to it, and that's where your actual personal development takes place.
You cannot escape this process, and you cannot cheat it either. It always catches up, so it's a journey you have to make.
In other words, the only way to deal with it is to embrace it, and the moment you do, you open a secret door.
It's the door of lifelong exploration of who you are, why you matter, and how to unfold it.
As a result, you change, and suddenly, you have clarity of heart and mind.