If you don't fit the norm, don't.
The opinion of others, about whom you should be and how you should live, is useless. It's noise on your radar, and you better filter it out.
We all do it. Try to fit in, I mean. It's an inevitable part of being part of a society and its norms.
The problem is that sometimes we just don't fit the norm. It's not who we are, and it never will be. So what do we do?
Do we adapt to the norm, or do we create our own path regardless of the norm?
What would you do?