Grow with your destiny.
Whatever role life intends for you to fulfill, it's your job to accept it and grow with it.
We all play our part in the theater of life, and sometimes it's difficult accepting it. That's none-the-less necessary to give yourself a foundation for personal growth.
To be a unique individual, you have to step fully into your destined role, whatever it is. Only then can you achieve a state of mind, where you are at rest with who you are.
Broken balance
As you have probably heard, life as we perceive it is nothing but an illusion. It doesn't really exist.
What you most likely haven't heard is what drives this illusion.